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hoolstoptheheels

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I don't entirely agree with that.


In this case in particular, she made no assertions of promises from Lauer about career benefits. She basically said she was asked to lunch, business was not discussed, and she was naked in his dressing room later than day.

Lauer did nothing legally wrong. And she was beyond the age of consent. By a lot. She made a mistake - I don't think she needs to be crucified for it. As for Lauer, he cheated on his wife, and that's between them. If it were true that all there is to the Lauer "scandal" are stories like this, in my view, there is no scandal.

Otherwise we are getting a little to "safe spacey" for my tastes. Young people make mistakes all the time (as do older people, but young people make mistakes of naivety and enthusiasm), and sometimes, that leads to bad relationships. I knew high school and college men and women who got involved with older people and sometimes regretted it. That can happen outside the workplace.

Lauer may be a scumbag, and its up to NBC if they fire people for being scumbags but most people have some skeletons. And the message for the wide eyed 20 somethings should be much more about living with your own mistakes. Getting involved with Matt Lauer for her was dicey. She admits to feeling unease moving down that path. Of course she did. It is not up to society to save young people from themselves in their youth Society can not judge too harshly though.

In this case, that goes for Lauer, too. Whatever happened to the commitment of my lefty friends to keeping govt out of the bedroom? Does that depend on current thinking about political correctness?

(In response to this post by Hood)

Posted: 12/19/2017 at 10:50AM



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Sex scandals grey area. I was watching "Megyn Kelly Today" -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 09:51AM
  She did the opposite of Katie Couric -- PalmyraHoo 12/19/2017 12:57PM
  So you had no issue with Bill and Monica? ** -- 111Balz 12/19/2017 1:21PM
  Fucking an intern never ends well -- PalmyraHoo 12/19/2017 12:54PM
  30 years now with my office romance -- VaTechie 12/19/2017 2:09PM
  If memory serves me correct, you were a DJ -- VaTechie 12/19/2017 3:44PM
  I think the Chris Matthews situation is BS -- MassHoleHoo 12/19/2017 12:25PM
  Just don’t pull a 138 and start reading Cosmo -- TomKazanski 12/19/2017 10:56AM
  It is a very grey area -- Beerman 12/19/2017 10:46AM
  That's probably true. But this bit of rating cheese... -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 11:00AM
  Meh -- Beerman 12/19/2017 11:18AM
  Up to the organization to deal with that. -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 11:24AM
  No doubt there is a big gray area. But.... -- Hood 12/19/2017 10:33AM
  The power gap is an issue -- MassHoleHoo 12/19/2017 12:29PM
  I have two sisters who married older men -- VaTechie 12/19/2017 10:53AM
  I don't entirely agree with that. -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 10:50AM
  I don't like guys that cheat on their wives. Period. -- PalmyraHoo 12/19/2017 1:01PM
  Same. ** -- Shenhoo 12/19/2017 1:37PM
  That's up to you. As for me I say let he who is without sin -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 1:36PM
  Oh grow up. -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 1:24PM
  I doubt the cleaning lady is happy -- VaTechie 12/19/2017 4:44PM
  She was 24. ** -- JMHoo 12/19/2017 11:31AM
  I don't see how this is illegal. -- Faz d. Hoo 12/19/2017 11:27AM
  Lol, so Bill was a scumbag? -- hoothat 12/19/2017 11:01AM
  Yes. Is someone suggesting otherwise? ** -- VAGentleman05 12/19/2017 1:23PM
  Just interesting to see ** -- hoothat 12/19/2017 2:47PM
  Absolutely ** -- wahoo138 12/19/2017 12:37PM
  Yeah he was ** -- Hood 12/19/2017 11:02AM
  Don’t shit where you eat -- dajoka004 12/19/2017 11:01AM
  I would but I hadn't heard she was playing. ** -- hoolstoptheheels 12/19/2017 10:33AM

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