Face it, your party is actively trying to destroy democracy so they can stay in power. They no longer have the numbers and know it, so this is their strategy. All the corny dad jokes and stupid waddabouts in the world aren't going to change or hide that obvious fact. If you support it (even passive aggressively by mucking up any discussion about it with a "waddabout Rhode Island" or "waddabout ANTEEFUH"), you're part of the problem. I personally think you're better than that, and probably aren't willing to trash democracy so Republicans can stay in power. But now for your hard choice -- are you going to sit on the sidelines and stick your fingers in your ears, or be part of the solution?